Depression, Anxiety

Vekgib · 27-06-2019, 09:07 PM

I'm 53. I've been taking medication for depression, diabetes, high blood pressure and cholesterol for 15 years. Until about a month ago. I came to the conclusion that none of it was working. So, I stopped all medication and seeing doctors and am now just letting nature take its course.
I have an actual date for early next year in mind where, if things haven't improved by then, I'm out. I can't cope anymore.

BENT_8 · 28-06-2019, 12:26 AM

Wow man, im sorry to hear that, you're obviously doing it pretty tough at the minute but im glad you've taken the opportunity to reach out and share your feelings.
None of us are trained professionals, but were here to listen if that helps.

I can sort of relate to where you're coming from, apart from the diabetes, mind you at around 130kg's its probably only a matter of time if I don't get my **** into gear again and do some walking.
I find walking to be quite beneficial, I've got a dodgy knee but I do my best to push through it in order to walk when I can as I find the time alone in the fresh air an opportunity to think about things a little clearer, never been one for the Gym environment.

five 7 · 28-06-2019, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Vekgib

I'm 53. I've been taking medication for depression, diabetes, high blood pressure and cholesterol for 15 years. Until about a month ago. I came to the conclusion that none of it was working. So, I stopped all medication and seeing doctors and am now just letting nature take its course.
I have an actual date for early next year in mind where, if things haven't improved by then, I'm out. I can't cope anymore.

Mate with your last comment please find someone to talk to or new doctor. If you can't think of yourself, consider the people around you. I have witnessed the devastation first hand to friends and family, also had the chance to possibly help and do regret not saying anything.
All the best Mark,,,

Syndrome · 08-09-2019, 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Vekgib

I'm 53. I've been taking medication for depression, diabetes, high blood pressure and cholesterol for 15 years. Until about a month ago. I came to the conclusion that none of it was working. So, I stopped all medication and seeing doctors and am now just letting nature take its course.
I have an actual date for early next year in mind where, if things haven't improved by then, I'm out. I can't cope anymore.

I hope things have improved for you.

**FoxtrotGolfXray 5.0** · 12-09-2019, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Vekgib

I'm 53. I've been taking medication for depression, diabetes, high blood pressure and cholesterol for 15 years. Until about a month ago. I came to the conclusion that none of it was working. So, I stopped all medication and seeing doctors and am now just letting nature take its course.
I have an actual date for early next year in mind where, if things haven't improved by then, I'm out. I can't cope anymore.

Hey vekgib,

Been a while since I've been in this thread and just saw your post. And it's shocked me a little. As per the other posts, please reach out to someone and talk through your situation with them, whilst most of us may not be able to help solve your problems, maybe just talking to someone will be a first good step.

If it's not a doctor, or a family member, or a friend, try one of the following:

Lifeline 13 11 14
Beyond Blue 1300 224 636
Men's Helpline 1300 78 99 78

Or if you prefer, chat with someone on here. PM me if you feel that will help and I'll give you my mobile number.

Just talk to someone mate. If you feel like you are a burden to your family and/or friends, I can assure you that there will be a lot more people who will miss you than those who will be relieved you are gone.

Please come back in here and let us know how you are going. We just want to make sure you're ok.

Please take care of yourself.

Craig

Syndrome · 12-01-2020, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by FoxtrotGolfXray 5.0

Hey vekgib,

Been a while since I've been in this thread and just saw your post. And it's shocked me a little. As per the other posts, please reach out to someone and talk through your situation with them, whilst most of us may not be able to help solve your problems, maybe just talking to someone will be a first good step.

If it's not a doctor, or a family member, or a friend, try one of the following:

Lifeline 13 11 14
Beyond Blue 1300 224 636
Men's Helpline 1300 78 99 78

Or if you prefer, chat with someone on here. PM me if you feel that will help and I'll give you my mobile number.

Just talk to someone mate. If you feel like you are a burden to your family and/or friends, I can assure you that there will be a lot more people who will miss you than those who will be relieved you are gone.

Please come back in here and let us know how you are going. We just want to make sure you're ok.

Please take care of yourself.

Craig

Vekgib logged on to this site yesterday.

http://fordforums.com.au/member.php?u=2228554

Vekgib · 12-01-2020, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Syndrome

Vekgib logged on to this site yesterday.

http://fordforums.com.au/member.php?u=2228554

Thank you to everyone who commented on my last post on this thread.
Things are not perfect, but they are significantly better than when I typed that post. A new doctor, new medication, and most importantly, a new outlook have all contributed.
As I said, I'm not great, but in a better place. Occasionally, I take a step or two backwards. But who doesn't at some stage ?
Thank you again gentlemen. Although "thank you" doesn't say enough. Reading your comments make for a humbling experience.
FWIW, the date I had in mind was this Thursday, 16 January. It's unfortunately significant to my dad ( R.I.P ) and I.
But I'll be logging in on Thursday and Friday. And hopefully for a long time after that.
Gentlemen, if any of you are struggling, please reach out. To a friend, a doctor, a workmate, even people you've never met on an internet forum.
I did, and I'm glad.
It's OK to say you're not OK.

Citroënbender · 12-01-2020, 09:36 PM

Thank you, truly.

Syndrome · 12-01-2020, 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Vekgib

Thank you to everyone who commented on my last post on this thread.
Things are not perfect, but they are significantly better than when I typed that post. A new doctor, new medication, and most importantly, a new outlook have all contributed.
As I said, I'm not great, but in a better place. Occasionally, I take a step or two backwards. But who doesn't at some stage ?
Thank you again gentlemen. Although "thank you" doesn't say enough. Reading your comments make for a humbling experience.
FWIW, the date I had in mind was this Thursday, 16 January. It's unfortunately significant to my dad ( R.I.P ) and I.
But I'll be logging in on Thursday and Friday. And hopefully for a long time after that.
Gentlemen, if any of you are struggling, please reach out. To a friend, a doctor, a workmate, even people you've never met on an internet forum.
I did, and I'm glad.
It's OK to say you're not OK.

Mate I'm glad you are doing better.

ArnoldKMB · 13-01-2020, 09:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Vekgib

Thank you to everyone who commented on my last post on this thread.
Things are not perfect, but they are significantly better than when I typed that post. A new doctor, new medication, and most importantly, a new outlook have all contributed.
As I said, I'm not great, but in a better place. Occasionally, I take a step or two backwards. But who doesn't at some stage ?
Thank you again gentlemen. Although "thank you" doesn't say enough. Reading your comments make for a humbling experience.
FWIW, the date I had in mind was this Thursday, 16 January. It's unfortunately significant to my dad ( R.I.P ) and I.
But I'll be logging in on Thursday and Friday. And hopefully for a long time after that.
Gentlemen, if any of you are struggling, please reach out. To a friend, a doctor, a workmate, even people you've never met on an internet forum.
I did, and I'm glad.
It's OK to say you're not OK.

glad you're ok mate hope to see you only doing better from now on. Thursday 16 Jan is in a few days, stay strong!

**buggerlugs** · 16-01-2020, 08:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vekgib

Thank you to everyone who commented on my last post on this thread.
Things are not perfect, but they are significantly better than when I typed that post. A new doctor, new medication, and most importantly, a new outlook have all contributed.
As I said, I'm not great, but in a better place. Occasionally, I take a step or two backwards. But who doesn't at some stage ?
Thank you again gentlemen. Although "thank you" doesn't say enough. Reading your comments make for a humbling experience.
FWIW, the date I had in mind was this Thursday, 16 January. It's unfortunately significant to my dad ( R.I.P ) and I.
But I'll be logging in on Thursday and Friday. And hopefully for a long time after that.
Gentlemen, if any of you are struggling, please reach out. To a friend, a doctor, a workmate, even people you've never met on an internet forum.
I did, and I'm glad.
It's OK to say you're not OK.

Great stuff................