Ureka, I found the reason

[Spudz27]

Bingo, I just found the link to why kids of today are so screwed up. In a society where both parents work, these kids go to daycare, however this wouldn't be an issue if daycare's were allowed to punish kids, but instead kids can do whatever they want with no consequence. My partner got a talking to for putting our son in time out for being naughty. Apparantly your not allowed to put them in time out. Or just punish them at all. So either I am going in there to tell her boss he is to be punished or I have to pay more and send him elsewhere so my partner does not have to deal with not being allowed to punish him, whilst he acts up in front of her. Or just pull him out all together (I am now on disability :( ) and he can be at home with me where he will be punished for doing the wrong thing, I can even see he is improving slightly since being at home 3 days a week with me, but after daycare he is always a little so and so.

So there you have it, it isn't just crappy parents causing kids of today to be screwed up, daycare's are just peputating the isssue. What chance does a child have in life when they grow up in an environment where the rules state a child is allowed to do the wrong thing, but you can't punish them.